Wednesday, November 21, 2012

BALANCE SHEET OF LIFE



Our Birth is our Opening Balance

Our Death is our Closing Balance

Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities

Our Creative Ideas are our Assets


Heart is our Current Asset

Soul is our Fixed Asset

Brain is our Fixed Deposit

Thinking is our Current Account


Achievements are our Capital

Character & Moral are our Stock-in-Trade

Friends are our General Reserves

Values & Behavior are our Goodwill


Patience is our Interest Earned

Love is our Dividend

Children are our Bonus Issues

Education is Brands / Patents


Knowledge is our Investment

Experience is our Premium Account

The Aim is to Tally the Balance Sheet Accurately.

The Goal is to get the Best Presented Accounts Award.

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Some very Good and Very Bad Things ..

The most destructive habit....... ........ ......Worry

The greatest Joy......... .......... .........

....Giving

The greatest loss..................Loss of self-respect


The most satisfying work......... ........Helping others

The ugliest personality trait....... ….......Selfishness

The most endangered species..... ....Dedicated leaders

Our greatest natural resource.... ......... ......Our youth


The greatest 'shot in the arm'........ .Encouragement

The greatest problem to overcome..... ......... ...Fear

The most effective sleeping pill....... Peace of mind

The most crippling failure disease...... .......Excuses


The most powerful force in life........ ........... Love

The most dangerous act...... ………….A Gossip

The world's most incredible computer.... ....The Brain

The worst thing to be without...... ......... ..... Hope


The deadliest weapon...... ........ .........The Tongue

The two most power-filled words....... .... 'I Can'

The greatest asset....... .......... ......... ............Faith

The most worthless emotion.... .......... ....Self-Pity


The most beautiful attire...... ......... .........SMILE!

The most prized possession.. ........ ….....Integrity

The most powerful channel of communication. ..Prayer

The most contagious spirit...... ......... ......Enthusiasm


Life ends;

when you stop Dreaming,

Hope ends;

when you stop Believing,

Love ends;

when you stop Caring,

And Friendship ends; when you stop Sharing...!!!

Monday, November 12, 2012




HAPPY   TIHAR 

                               

Sunday, November 11, 2012

WISH YOU A HAPPY TIHAR :) :)

HAPPY TIHAR TO YOU ALL



Tihar (Nepaliतिहार) also known as Deepawali in terai region of Nepal is a five days long hindu festival celebrated in Nepal which comes soon afterDashain. Similar to Deepavali, where one day is celebrated for goddess Laxmi and the other one is celebrated to worship brothers for their long life.[2]However, all ethnic groups celebrate this festival. The festival is celebrated from Trayodashi of Kartik Krishna to Katrik Shukla Dwitiya every year. The name Tihar means the festival of lights, where many candles are lit both inside and outside the houses to make it bright at night. The five-day festival is considered to be of great importance as it shows reverence to not just the humans and the Gods, but also to the animals like crow, cow and dog, who maintain an intense relationship with the humans.


Kag Tihar

The first day of the festival is called Kag Tihar or Kag Puja (worship of the crows).[citation needed] The crows are worshipped by offerings of sweets and dishes on the roof of the houses. The cawing of the crows symbolises sadness and grief in the Hindu mythology, so the devotees offer the crows food to avert grief and deaths in their homes. Tihar in Nepal and Diwali in India represent the divine attachment between Human and other animals and birds in our nature.We worship crow before having our meal.We feed the crow during this day as god. To strengthen the worship of nature, all these rituals are introduced in Hinduism.

Kukur Tihar


A dog after being decorated in Kukur tihar festival in Nepal
The second day is called Kukur Tihar or Kukur Puja (worship of the dogs). It is also called as Khicha Puja by the Newars.[3] Dog, which is believed to be messenger of Lord Yamaraj, the god of death, is worshiped once a year on this day.[citation needed] People offer garlands, teeka and delicious food to the dogs, and acknowledge the cherished relationship between humans and the dogs.
This day is also observed as Narak Chaturdashi.



Gai Tihar and Laxmi Puja


On the morning of the third day is Gai Tihar (worship of the cow) is observed. In Hinduism, the cow is sign of prosperity and wealth. In ancient times people benefitted a lot from the cow like its milk, dung even its urine was used for kind of purification. Thus on this day people showed their gratefulness to the cow by garlanding and feeding the cow with the best grass. Houses are cleaned and the doorways and windows are decorated with garlands made of marigolds and chrysanthemums.

In the evening Laxmi, the goddess of wealth is thanked for all the benefits that were bestowed on the families by lighting oil lamps or candles on doorways and windows to welcome prosperity and well being. At night the girls enjoy dancing and visiting all the houses of the village with many musical instruments playing a historical game called Bhailo all night long. They collect money from all the houses by singing and dancing and share the sweets and money amongst themselves.
From the third day onwards Tihar is especially famous for Deusi and Bhailo, light and fireworks. Deusi and Bhailo are the songs which have only been sung on those Tihar days. The Deusi is mostly sung by the boys while the Bhailo is sung by the girls. Social workers, young and children visit local homes to sing these songs, and in return the home owners give them money, fruit, rice and Selroti (a special type of Nepali bread made by rice flour and sugar).

Gobardhan Puja and Mha: Puja

On the fourth day of Tihar, there are three different known pujas, depending on the people's specific cultural background.[citation needed] Most perform Goru Tihar or Goru Puja (worship of the oxen). People who follow Krishna perform Gobardhan Puja, which is worship towards Cowdung. Cowdung is seen as very useful in Nepal, as in the olden days it was used for everything from light at night (Methane) to polish for the mud floors of traditional houses. The Newar community on the night of this day do Mha: Puja (worship of self). Because this period is also the beginning of Nepal Sambat, or the new year of Nepalese especially commemorated by Newars, it ensures prosperity for the new year.


Bhai Tika


The fifth and last day of Tihar is Bhai Tika, a day where sisters put tika on foreheads of brothers, to ensure long life, and thank them for the protection they give.[citation needed] When the sisters give the tika, the brothers give gifts or money in return. A special garland is made for the brothers out of a flower that wilts only after a couple of months, symbolizing the sister's prayer for her brother's long life.Brothers sit on a floor while sisters perform their puja. Puja involves following a traditional ritual in which sisters circle brothers three times dripping oil on the floor from a copper pitcher. Afterwards, sisters put oil in brother's ears and hairs, then give Tika. Also breaking of walnuts by sisters prior to giving Tika to brothers is also a common practice. Tika starts with placing a banana leave already cut into a line shape placed on brothers forehead held by one of the sisters hand, then applying tika base (made from rice paste) in the open space. Then sister dabs seven colors on top of the base using her fingers. Some may give tika with the help of a small stick or a brush without the using banana leaves. In this case, small stick is dipped into the tika base, then brushed vertically on the forehead, then using a different stick, the seven colors are applied on top of the base. After tika, flower garland is put around brother's neck. Then brothers give tika to sisters in the same fashion. Sisters also receive flower garland around their neck. Brothers give gifts such as clothes or money to sisters while sisters give a special gift known as Sagun (which is made of dried fruits and nuts, and candies), and a fantastic Tihar feast takes place. Those without a sister or brother, join relatives or friends for tika. Sisters pray for their brother's long life to the Hindu God of Death (Yam Raj). This festival brings close relationship between brothers and sisters.


FINALLY HAPPY TIHAR TO ALL